How Should I Respond to My Child’s Expensive Christmas Wish List?

Dear Dr. Karyn
I love my kids dearly but I got really frustrated when they gave me their “wish list” including all kinds of expensive stuff. What should I do?

Answer:
Many parents find this time of year difficult because their children make long lists of expensive gifts they want. As a result, some parents feel used, angry and a little resentful of this attitude.   To help manage expectations, I highly recommend parents share with their children the rough amount they are willing to spend on gifts. Encourage your children to think about this limit when they start putting their wish list together. Also, try making it a family tradition to give gifts or volunteer time at a local charity. This will help encourage an attitude of gratitude rather than an attitude of entitlement.