Dear Dr. Karyn,
I don’t like how my daughter is dressing. She’s only 14 but she’s dressing very provocatively
Should I put my foot down?

Answer:
This is a concern I’ve received from many parents. Here are some quick tips. First, do not start by telling them they are dressing like a slut, even if this is what you think. This is a harsh statement that will only get them angry and their walls will go up. Second, talk with your teen about why they are dressing in a certain way. Often, teens admit they want to look sexy and attractive. Get them to think about the messages they are sending by wearing certain clothes. Third, talk about appropriate boundaries for wearing clothes. What are they allowed to wear? What is off limits? Hear them out and negotiate on certain boundaries. Try to find a win-win balance for both of you.